Stress is a natural response to the pressures of work,
home, relationships and life generally! Stress is common
to all of us, from executives to shop floor workers, doctors,
nurses, teachers, council workers, mothers and even school
children. No one is immune to stress, though some people can
handle it much better than others.
Stress results from any event or situation that places
physical or psychological demands upon you. When stress
occurs, complex physiological reactions occur that prepares
the body to either fight, flight or freeze. These prehistoric
responses of fighting, running or just playing dead are
practical solutions to physical danger and threats to life.
They are not, however, the most suitable response to the
pressure of deadlines, presentations, arguments or other
events of modern life.
How can Hypnotherapy help?
Hypnotherapy can help you manage stress by identifying the
sources of psychological pressure and preventing the
accumulation of stress by changing the attitude of your mind.
By learning how to remove unnecessary pressures from your
life, and how to react differently to those pressures you're
stuck with.
There are many different stress management techniques and
tips you can learn that can take as little as two minutes,
which can easily be incorporated into everyday life. By far
the most effective is learning self-hypnosis for relaxation
skills you can learn to release the tension held in the body.
Stressors and Stress Factors
There is much
research to indicate that stress in the psyche creates the
possibility of physical illness. The listed 'stress factors'
and calculations shown at the foot of the table are based upon
that research. To use the chart, add together the stress
factors you have experienced during the last twelve months.
Neither the
research nor the table reproduced here are my work and I
cannot therefore assign copyright for its use.
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1. Death
of spouse/partner |
100
|
|
2. Divorce |
73
|
|
3.
Separation from spouse/partner |
63
|
|
4. Going
to prison or similar |
65
|
|
5. Death
of close family member |
63
|
|
6. Major
personal illness/injury |
53
|
|
7. Getting
married |
50
|
|
8.
Redundancy/being fired. |
47
|
|
9.
Reconciliation with spouse/partner |
45
|
|
10.
Retirement from work |
45
|
|
11. Major
illness of family member |
44
|
|
12.
Pregnancy. |
40
|
|
13. Sexual
difficulties |
39
|
|
14. New family member arriving
(birth, parent coming to stay
indefinitely, adoption) |
39 |
|
15. Major
work adjustment of any sort |
38
|
|
16. Major
change in financial status (up or down) |
37
|
|
17. Close
friend dies |
36
|
|
18. Career
change |
36
|
|
19. Major change in number of
arguments with spouse/partner |
35
|
|
20. Taking
out a mortgage/heavy loan |
31
|
|
21.
Difficulty with mortgage repayments |
30
|
|
22. Major
change in work situation |
29
|
|
23. Child
leaving home |
29
|
|
24.
Trouble with in-laws |
29
|
|
25.
Outstanding personal success |
28
|
|
26.
Spouse/partner starting/leaving work |
26
|
|
27.
Starting or stopping formal education |
26
|
|
28. Major
change in living conditions |
25
|
|
29. Change
in personal routines |
24
|
|
30.
Trouble with the boss |
23
|
|
31. Major
change in work conditions |
20
|
|
32. Moving
house/home |
20
|
|
33.
Changing to a new school |
20 |
|
34. Major
change in leisure habits |
19
|
|
35. Major
change community activities |
19
|
|
36. Major
change in social activities |
18 |
|
37. Taking
out a small mortgage/loan |
17
|
|
38. Major
change in sleeping habits |
16 |
|
39. Major
change in number of family meetings |
15
|
|
40. Major
change in eating habits |
15 |
|
41. Going
on holiday |
13 |
|
42.
Christmas |
12
|
|
43. Minor
law violations (involving fines etc.) |
11
|
According to
the research, your probability of illness during the next
twenty-four months is linked to your total 'score' as follows:
0 - 149 No
particular problems.
150 - 199
Mild crisis level. 37% chance of illness.
200 - 299
Moderate crisis level. 51% chance of illness.
300+ Major
crisis level. 79% chance of illness.
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